Write a new story...
One of my favorite ways to get really clear on what I want is to just write it down it. It doesn't matter how big or how small my desire is, there's something so powerful about committing it to paper.
Getting it out of your head, out of your heart and allowing yourself to look your desire straight in the eye changes you and the way you relate to what you want.
And the more you do it, the more likely you are to pay attention to what really wants to come to life vs. what you think should be next.